When your wife's bra won't fit you

Inside Miss Vera’s Finishing School for Boys Who Want to Be Girls, where anything goes except for your real name.

Behind Manhattan's Port Authority Bus Terminal lies a grimy, litter-strewn block of brownstones where a half dozen bums have camped outside an abandoned storefront. The tableau is like a mote of Old New York dust suspended in the neon beams reaching west from nearby Times Square. Since the late 1990s, the New York-based group Crossdressers International…